Romford | Cama Sood Hara

Cama Sood Hara is coming to East London
on 16 November 3.30pm at;

Film Director Q & A with Haresh Sood by the renowned Sonia Gupta, Relationship and Divorce Coach.

Cinema Romford

Level 3, The Mercury Shopping Centre, Mercury Gardens, Romford, RM1 3EE.

See Trailer below.

This documentary film is about Haresh Sood, a Nottingham & Sevilla based Filmmaker and Barrister who tells his own story. Whilst his first film was about the marriage of his niece (the global hit, My Nieces Big Fat Delhi Wedding), this time, the spotlight is on Haresh himself for not being married.

For the first time, we hear from a British Indian male on how and why he is unmarried at the age of 48 years. The title of the film is a spin on an old famous Indian scripture which has a deep meaning that you understand as the story unfolds.

Haresh intelligently highlights the discrimination, taunts, comments, and amusing views he has encountered and endured over the years, whilst simultaneously exposing the dark underbelly of the Indian matrimonial system.

In the film, Haresh opens his heart and shares his personal and emotional journey through love, loss and much more. He explains how the help of laughter and his chocolate Labrador Pancho, (and many other L words), have played a prominent role in rediscovering his own happiness, including his own larynx. Throughout the tour, VIP guests have joined who reflect 'L' Words we can all learn from and aspire towards to achieve a better state of being.

Haresh further cleverly examines the proscribed ‘union of marriage’ by turning the tables on the agents and advocates of matrimony in all communities and cultures. He directly puts them under the spotlight asking them to sell the union to him, adducing some contradictory and interesting responses.

Through his skillful story telling manner from his experience in Stand Up comedy, Haresh highlights many subjects through his journey which are never spoken about that have led to many people to being single, either through choice, divorce, or having a disinterest in relationships.

Moreover, he creates and shares an insightful theory as to why relationships work and fail from his own experiences based on a plethora of research from experts called the 'I theory' which is gaining immense interest.

The film which has been shot over 5 countries (U.K, India, Kuwait, Spain, and Norway) has a cast, crew, and production team of 250 people and has been receiving immense attention globally amongst the independent film circuit because of it's unique story.

Moreover the film has been on an international tour since November 2024 and is receiving rave reviews which can be seen on all social media platforms @HareshSoodFilms.

With melodious tunes throughout the film, Haresh has roped in many artists, singers, and musicians both locally, nationally, and globally in this distinctive documentary which can be seen on the websites music page.

This documentary will leave your thoughts provoked and discussing the topics touched upon from a new perspective. Branded a 'must watch', 'highly thought provoking' and 'unmissable', film critics highly recommend this film for all.

Film Director Q & A by the renowned Sonia Gupta, Relationship and Divorce Coach.

In a culture where marriage is often seen as the pinnacle of success and divorce is shrouded in stigma, Sonia Gupta continues to challenge the status quo. It is no surprise that Barrister and Filmmaker Haresh Sood and his team have invited her to host the exclusive Q&A session at the East London VIP screening of #CSH, a film that boldly questions the traditions and expectations of the Indian matrimonial system.

The East London-based Relationship and Divorce Coach is on a mission to empower individuals to redefine their self-worth beyond societal expectations.

Sonia first made headlines when she celebrated her divorce with a viral “divorce party” — a bold statement that personal happiness should never be sacrificed for outdated cultural norms. Her courageous act sparked critical conversations around self-worth, resilience, and the right to live authentically. However, Sonia’s journey of empowerment didn’t stop there. In early 2025, she faced a life-threatening health crisis that reshaped her understanding of strength and self-care. Hospitalised with pneumonia, influenza B, and a lung clot, she spent several days on life support — while those around her prepared for the worst. Waking up was not only a miracle but also a profound awakening. She realised how easily she had neglected her own well-being in the relentless pursuit of success and responsibility.

As a single mother, Sonia had long believed she had no choice but to keep pushing forward — to provide, to achieve, and to meet every expectation placed upon her. But that experience became her greatest teacher. Sonia says;

“I thought that because I was a single parent, I didn’t have the luxury of slowing down or taking care of myself. But the truth is, without health, we have nothing. And I learned that the hard way,” she reflects.

Since her recovery, Sonia’s story has continued to inspire countless individuals across the globe. Her resilience and authenticity have earned her widespread recognition — including being honored with the ‘Voice of Change’ Award by Kaushalya Org, celebrating her impact as a thought leader and advocate for empowerment and healing. She also served as a Guest Speaker at the Indo-British Friendship Conclave in Delhi, where she shared her insights on women’s empowerment, resilience, and redefining success in modern society.

To learn more about Sonia on her website, click here; For an extended profile, click here.

VIP GUESTS LINE UP

Councillor Mugglestone has served as a local councillor in the Elm Park Ward since 2014.

In addition to his ceremonial duties as Deputy Mayor, Councillor Mugglestone currently serves as Cabinet Member for Environment, a position he has held since 2022. This portfolio oversees waste management, roads, pavements, street cleaning, grounds maintenance and Public Protection.

Councillor Mugglestone holds appointments on several external bodies, including the East London Waste Authority, the London Road Safety Council, and the Reserve Forces & Cadets Association for Greater London. He is also the Council’s Member Champion for the Armed Forces, supporting veterans and service personnel in Havering.

On a personal note, Councillor Mugglestone has lived in the London Borough of Havering for 61 years, and he has two children and six grandchildren.

Councillor Barry Mugglestone is the Deputy Mayor of Havering

Larynx: Najma Akhtar,

World renowned Singer.

Najma Akhtar, a British born, singer, songwriter, composer and actor has achieved a place in world music history as one of the true pioneers of uniquely fusing Western and Eastern musical styles. She has recorded many solo albums and is credited in crafting a new musical genre, in which Jazz nuances are blended with the Ghazal (Urdu ballad) and Sufi (Devotional poetry) repertoires.Her ground-breaking and innovative debut album, ‘Qareeb' (Closeness), remains one of the most important world music albums ever recorded catapulting Najma into the World Music arena. Even though her music has remained rooted in the Ghazal and other traditional music of her ancestral home, her versatility as a writer and composer can be seen through a vast diverse body of work & artistic collaborations with some of the world’s most influential and credible musicians.

Apart from her ability to perform Indian traditional semi-classical, her new album, Five Rivers’, pushes the boundaries of musical interpretation a bit further in which Najma’s focus is on the Western canon of song. She says, “Using selected covers, my interpretation of songs written by Donovan, Tim Hardin, Bryan MacLean, Rev Gary Davis and the mystical love poetry of W. B. Yeats has allowed me to compare the many shared reference points between the ancient tradition of Ghazal (romantic Urdu poetry) and the Western tradition of lyric poetry, both beautifully address the issues of unrequited loss, tragedy & disillusionment” which are central to the Indian tradition of Ghazal.

Her music encompasses, Ghazal, Sufi, World Jazz, Asian Underground, Delta Blues, Psychedelia, Rock, Western Folk, Celtic, Sufi, North African Blues, Irish Celtic nuances and more. Her bi-lingual Indian vocals create a beautiful marriage between the East and the West that is utterly compelling. She has received universal critical acclaim including, David Fricke (Rolling Stone) who praised her ‘effortless artistry and emotional daring‘ and The Observer which described how ‘The pure soaring arc of Najma’s voice remains above emulation’. Click here to learn more.

Limitless: Bimmy Rai, MBE, FRSA

Bimmy is an award-winning CEO, Consultant, Trainer, Lecturer, NLP Coach and Project Manager who has worked across the Public, Charitable and Private Sector across the UK and Internationally.

Bimmy was awarded the MBE honours in the late Queen Elizabeth’s New Year’s Honours List 2022 for her services to the Charity Sector spanning more than 35+ years.

Bimmy is a fellow of the Royal Society of Arts, an advisory board member for City Sikhs, is an ambassador for the Rifco Theatre Company and Sikh Women’s Aid. She is passionate about supporting the VAWG sector and young people, especially in areas of mental health, empowerment and entrepreneurship.

Bimmy was the winner of the She Awards 2023 Inspirational Role Model category and the British Sikh Awards 2023 National Finalist for the Sikh in the Community.

Bimmy works for the Mayor of London in Policing and Crime (MOPAC). You can listen to her inspirational speech here:

Lustrous: Ravi Bhanot MBE

Ravi, a Pharmacist, is a fellow of The Royal Society of Arts, Founder of Make It Beat Charity, Sewa Week Charity and Hindu Network NHS. He is an authority in Ayurveda having written 5 books on ayurveda, holistic health and well being. He has trained over 7000 people in ayurvedic treatments with the vision to have ayurveda and yoga on the NHS. He is a trained mentor inspiring and helping people achieve their goals. To learn more click here.

Logical: Anita Chopra specialist Solicitor in Education law

Anita founded and set up Anita Chopra Solicitors in June 2020. Anita has a highly regarded reputation as an education lawyer. She is a leading expert in this field with 25 years’ experience. She specifically acts for parents, children and teachers against local authorities and schools including independent schools. She also specialises in acting for children with special educational needs and disabilities.

Anita’s vibrancy, determination, passion, and creativity have led to many successful conclusions on what are sometimes difficult cases. This saves both time and money whilst still achieving the best outcome for the client. Her expertise and knowledge of the law are unparalleled. Clients have a great deal of respect for Anita’s abilities, personal touch, empathy, and above all, her honesty in the advice that she gives.

The media regularly turns to Anita as their primary consultant on education related issues. She has appeared in almost all national newspapers, mainstream radio and TV stations and has been repeatedly asked to comment on live education law issues. She was also shortlisted for the Asian Achievers’ Award in 2008 and was, at the time of setting up her previous law firm, the youngest lawyer to set up their own firm at the age of 29. For more information, click here.

Lionheart: Tandy Virdee - Co-Owner, Rocketsonic & New Young Blood

Tandy Virdee is a creative professional with over 30 years of experience in strategy, branding & marketing. Having worked with leading global agencies such as WPP, Publicis, and Dentsu, and major brands including Microsoft, Unilever, Adidas, and Barclaycard, Tandy has earned over 20 awards throughout his career.

A mentor for Virgin StartUp, he is passionate about empowering the next generation of talent. Beyond advertising, Tandy has collaborated with Punjabi music legend Kuljit Bhamra MBE for over three decades, designing iconic album artwork for notable artists including Sangeeta and Film director Gurinder Chadha OBE on 'Bhaji on the Beach' to name a few & Apache Indian BEM.

He is part of the Zara Aleena Campaign to end violence against women and girls and co-founded the award-winning youth fashion brand Rocketsonic with his twin sons Deivan and Rylan aged 13 during covid. Their journey inspired the creation of New Young Blood, a pioneering non-profit platform championing Young British Asian Rising Stars across music, business, sports, and the arts. learn more here;

Likeable: Ashwini Kinhikar

Ashwini Kinhikar is an actress of film and stage of Indian origin based in London. Her most recent films are on Amazon Prime called, Neeyat as a News Anchor , Dimpi in Qaid No Wayy Out and On Netflix in Operations Mayfair playing the victims aunt.

She has worked in many English theatre plays, short films and in many Indian Regional Languages including Marathi, Gujrat, Punjabi, Bhojpuri and an International Cantonese films.

She is also a successful radio and events presenter with many years of experience as an entertainment journalist. She is also a professional Anchor, voice over artist and master of ceremonies.

in 2023 she performed ramp walk as a model in London Fashion week 2023 for House of Avida and African Fashion Show at Milton Keynes 2025. To learn more, click here.

In addition to the above there will be other prominent figures form the South Asian communities attending

Maureen, who returned to the Bar in 2022 after a long career break, practises Employment and General Commercial Law with The Barrister Group. She has a particular interest in helping whistleblowers and those with disabilities; her commercial law interests are in contractual, copyright and competition law disputes assisting consumers, commercial entities and SMEs. In addition, she is a Panel Member of Advocate and has been recognised on the Bar Pro Bono Lists for 2024 and 2025.

Outside of work, she has a history in the Creative Sector. She has organised - and taken part in - events in Barbados (very first Holetown Festival); in the United States (PR events for the Embassy of Barbados in Washington, DC, including a Barbados Night at the International Club); and in the UK (events ranging from a Christmas Banquet with Concert for a Church, to a Belly Dance Shows for her local Leisure Centre).

Please see her LinkedIn profile at Maureen Spencer | LinkedIn

Or contact her at The Barrister Group.